As much as I love my job, I really want this blog to be my getaway from all that. I want this blog to be my time to be creative and free; to help people come to realizations, and to learn something new about themselves (or just anything in general). I noticed this has become hard to do, as I recently took on a lot … Continue reading Dear 20-Something Year Olds

I struggled for years trying to find a job that fit my life. Bartending has become my life, for more reasons than just being able to have a job with fun energy. For now, I’m choosing not to get a formal education, as I’ve said in previous posts. So, this job has really become my everything. School will always be there, a shot at my … Continue reading Life Behind The Bar

I’ve been having this heavy thought on my mind and I decided what better to do then just to get it all out on paper. Things have been at a stand still. Everything has been very consistent in my life lately, which I can’t tell if I am loving or painfully hating. Anyway, it’s about my career path, which is the one thing I have … Continue reading Coming To My Senses

    I feel the words we share will never fully portray the amount of gratitude my heart holds for you and our irreplaceable friendship. You are about to begin a new wild endeavor, a new chapter in your amazing story. Which forces me to begin a new chapter of mine as well. What am I supposed to do?! No more pointless starbucks runs to ramble on … Continue reading 6 Things My Best Friend Has Taught Me

I am not surprised that I’ve waited a full month to get another post up. I’m getting sick and tired of my lack of self discipline. So, I created a challenge for myself. Im calling it 39 days of summer. I will be writing a new post everyday for 39 days. Why 39 days? If I’m going to be completely transparent here it’s literally just … Continue reading 39 Days of Summer

I’ve been in a funk recently, obviously. I haven’t written any new posts, or even written at all for that matter. I let my job take over and I brought back a lot of bad habits that took me so long to get rid of. A constant cycle of late nights, sleeping till 12pm, unhealthy eating, lots of Netflix, no reading, no physical activity… I’ll … Continue reading I Hope I’m 53 and Pole Dancing

I departed from JFK airport heading towards South Africa. I’ll save you the boring talk of my seventeen hour flight, and get right into when I first landed. That fresh, new feeling. The feeling of knowing the boring, exhausting flight is over and you have so much to look forward to. The itinerary was to start in Cape town and follow the coast until we … Continue reading My South Africa Experience